The 3 Stages of Mum Flu.

Usually in our house if there are bugs going around just one of us will get it. My 6yr old brings a lot home from school, mainly coughs and colds, but Rich and I rarely pick it up as well. If we do, there is usually one of us on form enough to take on the lion’s share of the care. This week we have all been ill all at once with an horrible fluey virus which seemed to manifest itself slightly differently in each of us. I initially thought it was a cold until one night when my internal thermometer was having trouble figuring out if I was in a fiery furnace or the Arctic Circle which didn’t translate well for me physiologically. Needless to say it has been quite a miserable week culminating in a cancelled 1st birthday party (sad face emoticon). You know when mum is sick it too it must be bad.

Child no 1

So Beg had it first, but she covers well. The thought she could possibly be missing out on some amazing fun activity is too much temptation for her to admit to feeling rough. I only ever know she is genuinely ill when I can convince her to lay on the couch in the day. On top of that she saw the neighbours kids pull up and asked if she could go to knock for them and when I said “maybe in 5 mins” she didn’t even argue and later declared herself too tired to play anyway. That’s when I really start feeling bad for her!

Man Flu

Rich got it next and started feeling really rough on babba’s birthday while we were visiting a farm. Not adverse to the odd bout of man flu, he can also be a right trooper as well – he was so awesome when both our babies were born – In fact once I’d caught this one too I felt sorry for him having to go to work.

siblings

Child no 2

I’m the first to know the baby is ill because he gets even more clingy than usual. I’m sure any mum can empathise with the clingy baby situation. As in don’t-even-think-about-leaving-my-line-of-sight clingy. Taking the baby to the toilet with you for a pee clingy. Unfortunately Beb’s virus presented as croup for him. I’ve never ‘seen’ croup in real life before but if you ever have, you will know what I mean when I say the noise they make with the cough is quite worrying. It was a very loud seal like barking cough that just came on really suddenly. Thanks be to Google for it’s 24hr wisdom, I was pretty sure it was croup. I took him up the Drs the next morning to be checked over. She prescribed him a steroid to open his airway in case he needed it but I held off administering it as it sounded like a heavy medication and he was doing ok. Happy to say 2 days later his cough is definitely improving.

Mum Flu

So then it was my turn. 1st stage complete denial, as I’m sure most mums do. 2nd stage – fear, “Oh no I think I’m ill and I have 1,2,3 things to do.” 3rd stage – admit defeat and so ensues miserable slopping about the house in pj’s and slippers praying  for a fairy godmother (one like Jennifer Saunders in Shrek if possible because she’s hilarious).

It’s no fun when the whole family is sick at the same time and I was a bit sad to cancel the baby’s party. A few days later and we are all on the mend and life goes on. I’m just thankful that it was just a virus and not a sickness bug (nobody needs extra laundry when they’re sick) and that Beb’s cough is getting better, not worse. It brings it home that we live in a place where I can just zoom the baby to the doctors if I am worried. How have you coped when the whole family has had an illness at the same time? Do you find it hard to ask for help? Do you use any natural remedies to prevent illness that you would recommend? Let me know below.

Hopefully we are at the end of flu season now and we can begin to look forward to long summer days of warmth and sunshine.

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